7 things that the Internet has changed forever in love and sex

Olga

Layfhakera freelance writer. Two years goes on dates with the guys from the application for Me.

At a meeting with the guys from the application I walk for two years. And I caught a glimpse of my habits and behavior in relationships (and, probably, not only mine) seriously changed.

1. We began to think more about self

When I downloaded the app on the phone, did not add to it almost no information: a couple of photos, name and age. But then I realized that this is not enough.

And on not what prompted this thought me that my profile was unpopular (it is not), but the fact that I myself rarely svaypala right people with blank pages. I would like to know more about the interests and status of the person. So now in my profile there is a small paragraph about favorite movies, hobbies and work, and even link to Instagram. By the way, about him!

Instagram, and the other social networks - this is a great place for self-presentation. And we create a perfect picture of life in their profiles: one (or rather, almost no one) writes that Today he popped pimple Sunday he spent in bed, and for the past six months, has recovered 5 kg. On the contrary, in the social networks we put interesting, sometimes a little untrue, pictures and talk about what we are tough and cool.

2. We began to quibble over

This item smoothly follows from the previous one. Social networking and dating sites make it possible to "see all". Therefore, focus on one variant is very difficult. There is some sort of psychological block: the feeling that you are sure you can find someone better. As a result, we are looking for is not love, and the "perfect match". Personally, I have a few different guys missed it due to this problem.

3. We have become experts in written communication

If you can not clearly express the idea and write each word with an error - it will be difficult to communicate and even more so to make new friends on the Internet.

I like a man with a liberal arts education podbeshivayut people who make a million mistakes in one sentence and can not explain clearly what they meant. I'm not crazy, grammar nazi, but everything has its limits.

More, communicating on the Internet, you need to skillfully deal in shades of emotional messages, for example, understand that point just a punctuation mark, and when - a signal that something is wrong. And to be an expert in the memes that does not blunt and not take offense when a person responds to you some new Internet jokes.

4. We began to appreciate more personal meetings

Correspondence can be carried out with an endless list of people, but that's a personal meeting with someone from online acquaintances decide difficult. For two reasons:

1. There is a fear to destroy the perfect communion of the fact that the person or disappoint myself be disappointed in him. Again, the image that we create on the Internet, idealized. Therefore easily can burst like a soap bubble.
2. A day is only 24 hours. Find precious time at all online friends just will not work.

5. We have become a stalker

Now, to learn something about the person, not necessarily to punch information through friends of friends and acquaintances of acquaintances. Suffice zaguglit prosherstit name or social networks. On the one hand, helpful, on the other - is fraught with consequences.

For example, you can find pictures of ex-girlfriends guy and find out what they do not like you in the Valais. I was so once. After that, I could not calm the inner doubts and she stopped communicating because of the fear of being rejected.

By the way, thanks to the Internet can be more easily verify the words of his second half. For example, if your partner says that linger on the job, you can see the history of Instagram to his friends: he suddenly hangs with them in the bar. This to me personally has not happened, but it was from a friend. She said the young man, which is delayed at work, and he went to smoke shisha with colleagues and lit one of them in the film.

6. Modify has become easier. But also to reveal the deception, too

Find a couple for sex for one night in services for Me simple. For some it's an easy way to change your soulmate, and for these individuals, as I do, - another reason for headaches. Usually, people who want to change, do not recognize that they have a pair. And it turns out that you can become a man, with that change unexpectedly. I would not like it.

But those changes, the internet has added complexities. Now they need to be especially careful. Turn off Wi-Fi and LTE in the phone, so they are harder to find, and to closely monitor their secret Passes: there are plenty of stories about girls who posted storiz lovers from their homes and declassified affair.

7. We began to look at simpler relationship

Thanks to the Internet we have become acquainted with a large number of people, often to walk and invite to date and even, in the end, it is easier to treat sex. The application immediately clear that you like each other, so there is no need to wait for the right moment or initiative from the other person - simply go and meet.