3 stages to get rid of grueling relations
Relations / / December 19, 2019
Love, help and listen close - it's great. But it is not great when relationships lead to impotence and drown in the negative. Three simple reception will help to break the poisonous relationship.
1. Visualization "Partial rope breakage"
Sometimes we attract a certain type of people. We have common emotional problems: time and time again we hurt each other, and this process is endless. Slowly we are getting used to this state, we even become comfortable. We know what to expect from a partner, and it soothes. So there is a dependency relationship - a vicious circle.
For example, low self-esteem attracts those who constantly criticizes. The critic, in turn, attracts those who can be plenty to criticize. One who sees the world in black, draw empathy, empathic pain of others.
What to do? Do not hold on to the brothers in misfortune. On the contrary, it is necessary to use a nagging colleagues, spouses, friends, as an incentive for confidence of and the healing of the original injury. Gradually you will grow this relationship. With the energy vampires and daffodils should just not talk, to go through them as poisoning: conclusions and not to remember.
If does not help, use visualization. It is effective when you feel that you are too attached to someone physically or emotionally. Imagine that you and this person connects the rope - the impressive size of the light beam. Decidedly not hold tune tightrope pain and negativity. With other human qualities you stay connected. Every time you close pours out streams of negative emotions, mentally cut the connection between you and the negative qualities of the interlocutor. Everything you do not take someone else's pain and hatred.
2. Visualization "Full rope gap"
If a man and his emotions do not allow you to breathe, apply another visualization. Again, imagine that you connect a beam of light. Mentally thank the person for what he has given you in the relationship, even if these lessons were difficult. Then firmly say, "It's time to break our ties."
Imagine that ASSUME scissors and completely cuts the rope light. You are free from the binding energy. Visualization will help release the relationship, free from absorbing foreign energy.
3. Practical technique "broken stick"
This spectacular reception completion exhausting relations. It will help get rid of obsessive thoughts about the man and the voltage when you feel that a person thinks about you.
Go on nature (in the park or forest), get big, but not very thick stick. Take it in your hands and say: "This relationship is finished." Break the stick in half and throw on the ground. Go away and do not look back. This is the end, the ending of your relationship.
For the sake of your well-being are learning to break unhealthy ties and put the protection against those who feed on negative emotions.
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